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Its such a long story... I dunno if I can bare to type it all... But I have given a full account of a lot of it in previous posts if anyone wishes to look...
Anyway, Yes well I KEEP trying to explain, but she will call on and off NON stop and if she does call its 2-500 times a day non stop I cant use my phones and then when I dont answer she turns up outside, the only way I can get her to leave is wait 3+ hours for the police to turn up... Then she lies to them and gets ME in trouble... There are no laws for 'harrasment' here in Scotland... I cant bare it anymore... I keep explaining I cant take it any more I DO NOT wanna be with her anymore I HATE her etc... I will try to argue with her but she NEVER stops, I end up hating myself being verbally abusive to her on the phone, the pain she puts me in, and then she makes it all my fault... Its got to the point that my phone rings and I'm angry, before I even know its her... she keeps going on and on and on, days weeks months, I cant cope what can I do? the law wont do anything and I cant break all contact cause we have a daughter and if |I change my number she ALWAYS manages to find it??? Any advice appreciated, thanks Matt Posted on 06/19/09, 09:06 pm |
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Matt...change your phone number..have it listed as "private" and buy a prepaid cell that you can turn off if she continues to call you...answer it once..and if ya daughter is fine..and she keeps calling ya....TURN IT OFF! 
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i know your situation is different than what i had happen to me when th ecalls came i would answer and she would go on and on so i would just put the phone down and go about my business i could still hear her talking, eventually she would hang up after she got through venting, but i never heard a word of it
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Thanks guys,
My other issue is SOMEHOW she finds my number when I change it, I dont know who or how she phones where I work or where ive worked etc, she lies about the situation (i.e. she or littl'un is in hospital) to get it and/or my attention. I have tried the put the phone down and let her talk but believe me, she does - has managed to do so for 3 HOURS and then when she realises she hangs up, calls again or turns up... I really cannot believe they have no law for this here... I feel like I have to move from this country to England where I'm originally from as she could not get away with it there :-( ALSO I end up feeling bad because when she cant get hold of me she will call everyone inc. my sick reletives. And she turns up outside... its nuts :-( lol (I laugh because its better then the alternative...)
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Get two phone lines with different numbers do not put the new line in your name. get an answering machine. record her talking and play it back to her the next time she calls. I have what is called (call forwarding) so if some one calls me the call is forwarded to another number maybe the police station would be a good idea or to her mothers number. If she call sand you do not answer , leave and go some where. or when she comes, take her to a doctor. or let her in and then walk out the door and get in your car and leave . Be sure her car is blocked so she cant fallow you.
Set off some fire works like fire cracker. when she comes be sure there is a house full of women there . whe she come take her in your arms and kiss her very passionately and hug her give her box of candy and nice necklace and pat her on the bum and walk out the door. buy a book called ( Living successfully with Screwed Up People) ) and read it buy one for her too.
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