What is Asperger Syndrome

Asperger syndrome - also referred to as Asperger's syndrome, Asperger's, Aspergers or just AS - is one of five neurobiological pervasive developmental disorders (PDD), and is chara...

Join Now

Free, anonymous support from people just like you.

We're on Facebook!
Check out our page!
DS Store is Open
DS t-shirts and more
Advertisement
Advice:
Dating help
Watch this 
View More Posts Ignore
So about 4 months ago I told my Aspie friend that I had feelings for him. He told me it wouldn't work which was ok cause I was going through a really rough time and was kinda crazy at that point.

In the last couple of months I have sorted out my life, have goals and am far more sane.

But now instead of seeing him once a month we are doing stuff together practically every week. He has even invited me over his and been round mine. He spends most of his time winding me up and luring me into play fights though he never really fights back just laughs a lot. Despite that he is still uncomfortable with hugging. He is also askign me lots of really deep and personal questions without any tact which is causing me upset but I know he doesnt mean it. I asked why he was asking and his reply was that he wanted to know everything about me.

All my friends are telling me that he has obviously changed his mind and is into me but I dont believe it as he said precviously that he wasn't and he doesnt go back on things.

Should I just wait and see how it pans out???

And if he is interested in asking me out then how can I make it feel right / comfortable for him to do so?
Posted on 09/18/09, 10:09 am
2 Replies Add Your Advice
Reminder: This is a support group for Asperger Syndrome. We trust you will do your best to remain positive and helpful. For more information, see our rules of the road.

You may also create your own Member Groups where you can moderate the discussion.
Advice:
Email me when others reply to this topic help
View More Posts Ignore
Reply #1 - 09/18/09  11:23am
" Well sorting out your life and being more sane would generally make just about anyone feel more inclined to be around you. Right now he seems to enjoy being around you and you sound like you enjoy his company too, for the most part. If he asks too many questions, just remind him nicely that you are sensitive to such things.
Yeah, I'd enjoy his friendship and see how things pan out. "
View More Posts Ignore
Reply #2 - 09/22/09  4:56pm
" hav u ever seen the movie mozart and the whale? or adam? those are both rerally cute movies bout asperger love stories. i watched them after i find out bout my sister. kinda reminfs me of ur stuation.

good luck w/ the guy. i think he sounds interested. but id kjust go with it and let time telll "

Add Your Advice
Advertisement

Advertisement
Content on DailyStrength.org is for informational purposes only. We do not provide any medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. More info
Portions of support group and treatment information provided by Wikipedia under the GNU FDL license
Copyright 2006-2009, DailyStrength, Inc. All rights reserved.
Terms of Service | Privacy Policy | Report Abuse | HSW International | HSW China | HSW Brazil