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My daughter recently had a boyfriend. They have gone out multiple times. After one week they went to second and after two weeks they got to third and oral. She told me they were lying on her bed and doing okay stuff but then him doing third was a little iffy but she went along with it. Then he looked up at her and started going down on her. She didn't know what to say so she didn't stop him. Then after a few seconds she realized what was happening so she told him to stop. After he left she told her friends but after three hours, well over twenty people knew somehow. They broke up but then hooked up a few times. Then last week she ended it and told him she only wanted to be friends. This morning i found out that some of the kids at her school told their parents who told her boyfriends parent's and now his parents she is a slut and he is not allowed to talk to her anymore. He is trying to blame it on her even though i do not think it is because he told people also. She has no one to talk to because her friends keep telling her she is being a baby and to shut up. She feels used and dirty.... It wasn't her fault though..... Right?
Posted on 11/10/09, 01:11 am |
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have her talk to a school counsleor or a therapist about it. it will bow over as talk does, but she needs you need to sit and talk to her about her body and respecting it,, and having other people respct it too. 
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This could easily happen again. I would make sure she is not allowed or given the opportunity to be alone in her room (or your house, or his house/room etc.) with a boy. Period. Next time it could go farther, end up with worse consequences than gossip. Then, as bugabugsmom suggests, talk to her openly about sex and respecting herself/body and having the boys she dates respect her too. Remind her that boys will generally "tell all" to their friends, no matter how turstworthy and sincere they may seem.
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wow......First of all its great she talks to you like this My son only tells me so much I think I may have said something to shut the door of communication forever. Anyways its not her fault she was talked into the situation and pressured to go along with it because she wanted to make him happy. She will just have to tolerate that everyone found out and is gossiping it will die down eventually. The boy si probably protecting himself by saying it was her idea to his parents because they found out. The lesson should be here to think ahead to future consequence of a momentary impulse. Its unfortunate for her girls still get called names for their sexual decisions good luck
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