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2 daughters 12 & 10 fight all the time (Verbally)
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I am at my wits end and I hope that someone out there has some advice. My 2 daughters, 10 & 12 are driving me crazy. They lost their father 4 weeks ago and now they are fighting over everything. My 12 yr old won't do anything the same as the 10 yr old. I guess she is trying to claim her independence. But, the 12 yr old won't play or do anything with the 10 yr old and on the rare occassion that they do something together, it always ends in an argument. They did start this before their father passed away, but it is getting worse now that he isn't here. Example: Today I took them bowling. Things were fine for about 2 frames and then it started. Arguing about what chair to sit in, what ball to use, don't use my ball. It completely ruined my day for me trying to take them somewhere to have some fun for a while. I am seriously considering therapy for all 3 of us, but really don't want to go that route unless we absolutely have to.
Posted on 10/02/09, 02:10 pm |
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you might want to seek counseling. your children and yourself are going through a traumatic time. losing a parent isnt something you can just toss under a rug. they need to speak to someone about what they are feeling. if it started before hubby passed that is normal kids stuff but they need each other right now for support and they need someone safe to talk to about what they are feeling.
having your children in counseling is not a sign of bad parenting, its a sign of good parenting. right now my daughters see a counselor every week because they are preparing for the death of their grandmother. i made these arrangements because I want what is best for them. I know loss at a young age isn't easy that's why I am getting them help now. 
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Life has thrown a tough curve ball your way and I'm awfully sorry for the loss of their father. Angel's reply sounds reasonable though, and could give you the help, support and understanding all of you need at this time. Good luck to you all.
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