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Have custody of 2/1/6mos...help!!
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I have temp custody of my 3 grandchildren ages 2, 1, 6mos.. I've had them for 6mos and I'm doing my very best. My husband works long hours so its mainly me taking care of them. I feel like they do not get enough attention from me and at times they do not get everything they need every day... outside time, bath, individual time..etc.
My 2yr granddaughter does not want to nap nor go to bed til late late nite. My 1yr old grandson is into EVERYTHING.. very curious little boy. And he goes to bed early and up early. My 6mos old granddaughter is wanting me to hold her alot or on the floor (blanket) inwhich if I leave the room she is crying...... Anyone with advice on managing all of this?? Posted on 09/16/09, 02:09 am |
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It sounds like all of the kids are right where they need to be (and you have your hands full!). My daughter has stopped taking naps during the day for the most part and she's 13 months. She will only go down every once in awhile. You can still try to have quiet time in the children's bedroom. If the 2 year old is still in a crib, set toys in there with her so that she can play quietly for an hour or two. As for bedtime, set the time and stick to it. Was she like this with her mom? Some kids like to test their limitations with new carers/family members just to see what they can get away with.
A 1 year old will want to explore. Just do the best you can to childproof your household. I doubt there is much that can hold his attention for very long. The simplest of things can be entertaining at that age- plastic cups that can be stacked or hit with a spoon or a calculator with big buttons. For outside time, if its warm enough, get a kiddie pool, swing set, or sand box. Some of them are fairly inexpensive and its an easy way to entertain all of the children at once. If the 6 month old is always wanting to be held, get a sling or carrier. It'll make your life a lot easier when it comes to working with the other children. I know its a lot of work, but just remember that she won't be that little forever. Hang in there and she will become more independent with time. If you're looking for down time for yourself, set up child gates to block off a room in the house. Add in toys and the tv and the older two kids will be able to entertain themselves. When you find you're at your wit's end, get yourself and the kids out of the house. There are kids clubs (or even the YMCA) that give children a safe playing environment and allow you to sit down and relax. 
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